If you love someone, let them go. For If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were… You can’t make them stay by loving them harder. If they really wanted to stay, they would have never gone actually! Here comes the picture of self-respect and being productive. It’s okay if you can’t get them out of your mind. It’s okay to strike the flashbacks. It’s okay to bawl. It’s okay to shut down your thought process but just don’t let that overcome you. You would have stalked them million times or you would have checked their online status or you would have roamed around where they live or you would be thinking about the time or efforts you invested … but for how long you can hold a person who doesn’t want to be yours ? Rather invest your time where you are being appreciated. It can be your work or your passion or the person whom you are ceasing to come near you. There is no harm in exploring yourself and no one is going to judge you unless those judgments take over the ship.
Start appreciating life before it depreciates you
because Life is full of adjustments. You have to accept that no one is gonna keep you fecund but you! If you can’t be happy how can you make the other half happy? A life partner is very crucial to have so why not have one, who stands by your side in scorching heat or who provides a step up to your failure or who understands you even when you can’t. You cannot suppress yourself on others for happiness.. can you? For moving on you just have to bite the bullet. The situation has taken place… accept the fact. go right or go left … make a note of pact saying you will never make that mistake again as repeating the same mistake twice is rather considered a decision!
If you are an introvert, extrovert or ambivert One way you can spill out the beans is to write your own story from the start .. describe how you felt, what happened next and conclude the beautiful ending before it ends! Let the emotion flow so that it doesn’t hover around you all the time. You are the only one who can fix this and the only one who can make it worse. The choice is yours! Always and forever
This quote has changed my life upside down. Let’s see if this works for you too.
You need to wake up from your bed to sleep again
Be grateful enough that certain things didn’t work out. You might not know now but you are being saved from something you never expected. Something greater is aligning for you. Instead Kneed the thread in the midst of the chaos after all…
In the end, everything’s gonna be okay ! This time shall pass!
Be You 
EXTREMELY HEART TOUCHING BLOG . AFTER READING IT , FOR THE FIRST TIME THIS BLOG ALLOWED TEARS TO OVERRULE TONGUE , BECAUSE IT KEPT ME SPEECHLESS . REALLY GREAT WORK . KEEP GOING . STAY BLESSED.
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Thank you so much .. could you please declare your name ?
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Every thing will ok in the end but what about current and past situation
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You have to bite the bullet about that circumstances. Believe that you are destined and everything has its reason which you might not know now but in near time ! Just never ever wait for anything to happen… YOU have to do it today or never !
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Although its too difficult to unlove someone, your blog made me realise that we need to strive our goals rather than pursuing someone who is not meant for us.
It was a nicely written blog.
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Can I know how did you get to know that the person Is not meant for you ?
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Because many times i have forgiven her for her mistakes, mistakes which can’t be forgiven.
But for some reasons she got fed up of me and she wanted to breakup and after few months she wants to be with me.
Its like a never ending cycle for her she cheats on me and i forgive her and than she will say sorry and again will repeat her mistakes.
We are not together right now she wants to be with me but i cant forgive her because what she has done is way way way more heartbreaking for me.
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Yes, mistakes taking place twice is declare as a decision !!.. if she loved you she would never have left you, no matter what.
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Amazing effort!!!! Your writing skills are very good. hats off.
But as a well wisher don’t mind if I ask you ‘Is something wrong in your life?’
You wrote a blog on serious a topic
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It’s not necessary that bloggers always writes depicting their life .. I considered that this thought should be shared with the one who is in need that’s it …
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Amazing blog!
I think at one time everyone had face this phase and the blog will help to overcome the pain.
Every darkness has light but we just need to identify it.
Keep it up!
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Absolutely, thank you for making time to read it .. means a lot‼️
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Dear
What is love ?
And how do you know when you love someone?
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Love is when you iron out all the complications between you,
You cross all the boundaries In the world of efforts and whey they leave, it become irrational for you, everything turns to wood.
Sleepless nights, puffy eyes and no end to your thoughts become a part of your life. That’s when you realize the purest form of love ..
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Than what’s called addiction?!
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When you do not feel any of such things which I mentioned above when your love leaves you … that’s an addiction I guess
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Love is unconditional and if you are trying to un-love someone first of all you never loved that person. In love you never thinking about whether other Person loved you or not thats not your job your job to love.
https://isha.sadhguru.org/in/en/wisdom/article/how-to-love-unconditionally
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I suggest you to stay updated for my next blog. Hope you will find your answers and thank you for making time to connect it 🤗
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Waah, gajab❤️
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The lines above in the pragaraph have that spark in it!💥
It seems you are quite a bit more understandable in this all things so and so! It would be awkward to ask but, though reading out by your blog it seem I would like to have your opinion on something!! Hope we can contact each other!!:)
We can contact on Instagram if u allow so!
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