Be You

Confidence is not across the board, you can have high confidence in some domain while low in other.

I have often noticed many people are confident enough but lack in portraying themselves. They develop terms like stage fear, panic attack, numbness and many more. The only way to sabotage it is to get rid of your self-made assumptions. It is vital to broach then to ignore.

There are 2 reasons for being diffident

• 1.You don’t trust YOURSELF

                 Or

• 2. You trust people out there, MORE

Confidence is a form of conviction, that one has the ability to overcome the challenges dropped by none other but LIFE. If you’re not ready today, you WILL get ready for tomorrow even if you are not ready for tomorrow.  Building confidence is not a piece of a cake; it can be acquired and improved over time. Comfort zone is the essential factor. If you aren’t comfortable, you can’t even speak a word.

5 Steps to conquer your comfort zone and grab the unknown into your mind.

• Start with a smile
• Understand their mindset before you comment
• Be open to critic
• Disobey your self-imposed rules
• End with a smile

For instance, before jumping into any conversation observe the structure and the flow which might help out to outgrow yourself differently. From which your tone will enhance automatically.Outside of social content, continue to target and meet your goals that can empower the belief that you are competent, capable and skilled. I’m sure then after you won’t even need to broadcast it.

To gain confidence, rather than doing things that scares you, why not take a step up in your proficiency? What if that scary thing turns out black and DE-motivates you? Why to develop a new skill when you already have one, which just needs a makeover?

Watching boost up videos won’t let you actually BOOST UP because confidence is something you cannot lend or borrow. It is right there inside you. Believe the fact and walk with that.

“Nobody remains FIRST for a long time” – A perfect example that portrays “CHANGE”.  

If you love someone, let them go. For If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were… You can’t make them stay by loving them harder. If they really wanted to stay, they would have never gone actually! Here comes the picture of self-respect and being productive. It’s okay if you can’t get them out of your mind. It’s okay to strike the flashbacks. It’s okay to bawl. It’s okay to shut down your thought process but just don’t let that overcome you. You would have stalked them million times or you would have checked their online status or you would have roamed around where they live or you would be thinking about the time or efforts you invested … but for how long you can hold a person who doesn’t want to be yours ? Rather invest your time where you are being appreciated. It can be your work or your passion or the person whom you are ceasing to come near you. There is no harm in exploring yourself and no one is going to judge you unless those judgments take over the ship.

Start appreciating life before it depreciates you

because Life is full of adjustments. You have to accept that no one is gonna keep you fecund but you! If you can’t be happy how can you make the other half happy? A life partner is very crucial to have so why not have one, who stands by your side in scorching heat or who provides a step up to your failure or who understands you even when you can’t. You cannot suppress yourself on others for happiness.. can you? For moving on you just have to bite the bullet. The situation has taken place… accept the fact. go right or go left … make a note of pact saying you will never make that mistake again as repeating the same mistake twice is rather considered a decision!

If you are an introvert, extrovert or ambivert One way you can spill out the beans is to write your own story from the start .. describe how you felt, what happened next and conclude the beautiful ending before it ends! Let the emotion flow so that it doesn’t hover around you all the time. You are the only one who can fix this and the only one who can make it worse. The choice is yours! Always and forever

This quote has changed my life upside down. Let’s see if this works for you too.

You need to wake up from your bed to sleep again

Be grateful enough that certain things didn’t work out. You might not know now but you are being saved from something you never expected. Something greater is aligning for you. Instead Kneed the thread in the midst of the chaos after all…

In the end, everything’s gonna be okay ! This time shall pass!

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton